Thursday, September 03, 2009

A Weekend-long date with Richie

I have one word for my weekend in Charlotte with Richie--awesomesauce.



That's right, I said awesomesauce. It's like awesome, but covered in barbecue sauce. Yeah, it was that good.



We left work Friday night and drove straight into Charlotte, singing along to Rolling Stone Magazine's Top 500 Songs of all time, stopping only to eat in Manning (chicken fried steak, yum!). We didn't have reservations, so we took a chance on Courtyard by Marriott and were very happy. The room was so comfortable, with lots of pillows and a nice big bathroom.

I only have one complaint, though, and it's not with the hotel. Why did it seem that every store in Charlotte except the gas stations and Wal-Mart closed at 10? Those are Georgetown hours. All we wanted was some juice and soda for the refrigerator, so unfortunately, we had to trek into a crowded Wal-Mart. I will say that was the first time I'd ever gone to Wal-Mart at 10:30 in the evening and see it so crowded.



Saturday morning, after breakfast at Starbucks (Cinnamon Dolce Latte and a Java Chip Frappucino with two ham biscuits), we drove over to Concord Mills to do some shopping. Richie was practically shaking at the steering wheel as we pulled into the Bass Pro Shops parking lot. It was the cutest thing ever. Sure, we have a Bass Pro Shops in Myrtle Beach, but the store in Concord Mills is ginormous. They were even having a saltwater fishing expo and a cookout! (The barbecue sandwich I had at the end of our shopping trip was fabulous. I'd never had North Carolina barbecue before, but I was impressed. Of course, that doesn't mean I like it better than South Carolina barbecue. Hush your mouth!) We walked over every inch of that store, even upstairs where they have archery equipment, so we could look down on the store and survey the land, so to speak. It was the most amazing thing, watching him shop, so excited to see all the new things that aren't offered in the Myrtle Beach store. He was even able to get a new GPS for his boat. Then, to return the favor, he took me shoe shopping.



SHOE SHOPPING, people. SHOE SHOPPING. He sat and watched me try on pair after pair after pair of shoes. He even suggested other pairs for me to try on. It really was the most amazing, sweet, and self-sacrificing thing ever. When I walked away from the store with that bag in my hand, I really felt more like I was floating.



We had reservations for Doubletree at Gateway Village, which is four blocks from the Bank of America stadium. Our room was ready for us before check-in time, and they had warm cookies waiting on us. I held back from tearing into mine on the elevator. I am a 32-year old woman, after all. I needed to show some restraint. Our room was so beautiful, even if we didn't have a fridge in our room. I could have spent the rest of my life in that room, and the bathroom was bigger than both my bathrooms at home. LOVED. IT.



The magic continued when we walked over to a restaurant called Presto's. It was a very casual restaurant--the wait staff was dressed in Panthers jerseys for the game--but the food was outstanding. I had the Black Angus and blue cheese burger with curly fries, and Richie had the seafood jambalaya made with an amazing spicy sauce. It certainly sustained us through the walk to the stadium and up to the 500 level to our seats.



The Panthers game was a new experience for me. Like I'd said in a previous post, I'd been to a ton of college games, but never a professional game. It's a very surreal experience, especially when you look down on the field, watching the teams warm up, and you realize that none of them make less than one million dollars a year. Once I got past that, I started looking around. Our seats weren't bad--they could have been much, much worse--and it was perfect for getting a good view of downtown Charlotte. I love the way a city looks at night, with all the building lit up, and Charlotte was no exception. With Charlotte being named "The Queen City", I was absolutely not surprised to see a building that actually looked like a crown topping it. Quite a sight.

So here's where the excitement began, before kickoff! We had several different types of people sitting around us--guys enjoying guy time together, dads with their kids, couples, and groups of couple. We were all getting along wonderfully until this crazed group of drunk college kids moved in behind us. Their language was deplorable, and they were extremely disruptive. In the second quarter, the loudest one was evicted, and after half-time another one disappeared for being reprimanded by security. It was goodness all around.

Because it was a preseason game, attendance was a little down, as was the excitement level. There was no swaying of the stadium like at every single Gamecocks game at Williams-Brice. Overall, though, it was fun, since it was my first game, and I got to see three Gamecocks on the field--Casper Brinkley, Travelle Wharton, and Captain Munnerlyn. The walk back to the stadium? Not so fun. It was hot and crowded, and I just wanted to be in the quiet and cool of that hotel room with my September issue of InStyle. I'm glad Richie remembered the way back to the hotel, because I sure didn't!

Sunday was quiet, because we were tired still, and we were driving back. Ate at a Cracker Barrell, though, and that's always good. I was happy to be home, happy to see Cathryn (who had her own adventure with Cathy and Richard at Freestyle Music Park), but Richie and I had such a wonderful time together that I was a little sad, having to pack up and ride back to Georgetown.

Looking forward to the next trip!

Toodles!

Monday, August 31, 2009

I totally intend to write about our fabulous Charlotte weekend, but I had this thought occur to me while I working, and I had to write it down RIGHT NOW.

You know what I want? I want a "We Are The World"-style reunion of every Idol winner and runner-up. Give them all something to do, you know? Let Kelly and Clay and Fantasia and Carrie try to out-sing each other. Let Justin and Ruben and Taylor dance and grin at the camera. Diana and Katharine and Jordan can flip their hair and smile their million-dollar smiles with Kris, who will be strumming his guitar. Bo and David Cook can rock out. Adam can wail and Blake can beatbox. David Archuleta won't see the audience because his eyes will be closed.

Now you tell me--doesn't that sound like the most awesome moment of television EVER?

I think so.

Toodles!

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Richie and I celebrated our ten-year wedding anniversary on August 7th, and we're leaving this Friday night for Charlotte. I have to tell you, I'm excited, for a couple of reasons:

1. Richie and I rarely get a chance to spend time together as a couple, and even less time to actually go away together. Not that we don't love our kids, but your marriage shouldn't completely be about your children. Couples need time alone to remind themselves why they're a couple to begin with! It's always nice to go out to dinner and not have to worry about eating somewhere that's guaranteed to serve chicken tenders and pizza. I am looking forward to having a weekend-long date with my husband!

2. I'm going to see my first professional football game--Panthers vs. Ravens. Yeah, it's a pre-season game, but still--professional football! I've always enjoyed going to the South Carolina games, because the atmosphere in the stadium is AMAZING. I can't wait to see what it's like inside the Bank of America Stadium. PLUS--it's football! Grown men plowing one another down. What's not to like?

I've been in the throes of preparation all week. Making lists, doing laundry, listening to my Katy Perry station at Pandora.com...ok, maybe that last one isn't really part of me going away with Richie for the weekend, but she's pretty great and I did want to mention it.

Toodles!

Monday, August 24, 2009

Yes, my life *IS* a song to God.

I accepted Christ into my life when I was seventeen years old. That decision has, by and large, informed every other decision I've made since, good or bad. I've either done my best to glorify Him, or I've had to fall on my knees and ask forgiveness for failing Him once again. I know that sounds harsh, but I have always been a woman of extremes.

A revelation hit me last night after I sang at Ringel Heights' 4th Sunday night Sing. I sang "God of Wonders" and "How Deep The Father's Love For Us", and I could feel God right there in that little church, right on that stage with me, standing beside me. It was an amazing feeling. Afterwards, when we all bowed our heads to pray, my heart still racing, I heard God speaking to me, telling me that He called me to sing. To sing for Him, to glorify Him with my voice. Then, as an added bonus, two years ago, He called me to lead children's choirs, to teach them how to worship and glorify Him through song.

Since accepting Christ, I've been asking Him to reveal His will for my life; my purpose in His kingdom, so to speak. For fifteen years, I thought He was remaining silent, but in reality, I was too busy begging for a neon sign when I should have been quiet, and listening for a whisper. He answered my prayer that year. He answered that prayer the first time I stepped on that stage and felt totally at peace for the first time in my life when I opened my mouth to sing, when I could hear what I thought was my voice but couldn't feel my lips moving.

God called me to sing!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

A Trip To The Bookstore

This past Saturday, Richie and I headed up to Market Common Myrtle Beach to do a little birthday shopping for me. What? I know my birthday is three weeks away, but I knew what I wanted, so Richie and I went to pick it up. I'm a big girl now, and I don't need presents ON my birthday. What's important is that I get presents. Sheesh.

Anyway, our first stop inside Market Common was this great store called Blue Mer. With all the pretty colors and preppy clothes, I could have purchased everything in the store. But I was there on a mission--to purchase a Vera Bradley wallet. Richie was very patient as I browsed through every single Vera item the store offered, even though I was just there for a wallet. This is what I ended up purchasing:

http://www.verabradley.com/Site/Store/ProductDetail.aspx?colorid=7&sku=223%3a7


I can even carry it as a purse on it's on, which I did the next day at church.

After leaving Blue Mer, Richie and I had lunch at P.F. Changs. We'd never eaten there before, and with us both loving Chinese food, we decided to give it a try. The shrimp dumplings were the best I'd ever tasted. I could have embarrassed myself with those dumplings, and ordered them six more times during the same setting, but I held back and enjoyed our Seasame Chicken and Sweet and Sour Pork. During lunch, I convinced Richie to walk into Barnes and Noble, instead of us driving straight over to Bass Pro Shops. He indulged me and said yes--on the condition that we didn't stay in there for six hours.

Those of you who know me well know that I literally could stay in that bookstore for the entire six hours and still need more time. I've made no secret that Barnes and Noble is my favorite bookstore, although I like the one in Mount Pleasant better than the store in Market Common.

My trip turned out to be very successful--two books! "Carolina Girls" by Steve Brown, which about four girls who spend summers at Pawleys Island during the 1960s, and "The Physick Book of Deliverance Dane" by Katherine Howe, about a Ph.D. candidate who makes a startling discovery about The Salem Witch Trials, turning everything she thought she knew upside down. A trip to Wal-Mart later that day to pick up some groceries also ended up fruitful, with "Sundays At Tiffany's" by James Petterson winding up in the cart. Victory!

I'm trying to finish up "She's Come Undone" by Wally Lamb. Normally, I read through books the way water might run through your hands, but this one is more difficult for me, because the main character goes through so much in her short life that's it's almost unbearable to read at times. I've been working on this particular story for over a month now.

On the other hand, maybe by the time I've finished "She's Come Undone", "Return to Sullivan's Island" by Dorothea Benton Frank will have arrived on my doorstep!

Toodles!

Friday, June 19, 2009

Confidence

Do you ever think about confidence? Specifically, what gives you that feeling-- that blood-rushing, heart-pounding, 'I-could-take-over-the-world-feeling'? I began thinking about it as I was driving, and a song came up in the CD rotation that gave me that very same feeling, and now I'm curious as to what gives other people that same feeling.

Here's a list of mine:
1. The Buffy the Vampire Slayer theme song;
2. Swishy (if that's not a word, it should be!) dresses;
3. 3"- 4" heels;
4. Singing when I love the song and know that I can do something great with it; and
5. Sunny Spring days.

What makes you feel confident?

Toodles?

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Was today December 7, 1941 and I didn't notice? Do the mosquitoes think that they are Japanese bombers and I am Pearl Harbor?

I wish somebody would clue me in to these kinds of things.

Toodles!